While Tendai said she was initially able to come to terms with the double bombshell, she said it had become harder as time wore on.
“When my boyfriend became my husband we managed it together. I was on medication and we got used to the routine," she said.
"But then all our friends started having babies and I was going to lots of baby showers."
She said she and her husband, Crispen, had started to look into surrogacy when, unexpectedly, she fell pregnant.
“I didn’t believe it. It couldn’t be real. I showed my husband the test," she said.
"We bought four more pregnancy tests to make sure."
During her pregnancy she was monitored frequently by multiple health care teams including an obstetrician, midwife, kidney doctor, dialysis nurse and kidney dietician at Sheffield Teaching Hospitals NHS Foundation Trust.
She had to go into hospital three times a week during the pregnancy for dialysis and her baby’s progress was continually monitored via frequent ultrasound scans to identify and treat problems early.