The Reverend Charlotte Cheshire also has the Ockenden alert on her notes, and is waiting for it to be added to those of her 14-year-old son, Adam.
Adam suffered multiple disabilities after developing an infection. The Ockenden review in 2022 found that 94 children, like Adam, suffered life-changing injuries.
Rev Cheshire has to attend frequent medical appointments with Adam, who is autistic, including for his profound learning difficulties, as well as hearing and sight impairments.
Before the alert was added, she frequently had to retell the story of how he was failed.
"In a situation where there is admitted medical negligence and harm at birth, that's revisiting the trauma every single time, and I genuinely believe that if they are seeing us, if they are treating us, they need to at least know the overview," she said.
"Nothing can undo the harm now that's been done to us, but it wasn't just a moment in time that fades into history.
"This is a harm that stays with me and Adam for the rest of our lives, so it matters that they know, 'oh, this is one of those families that carries a very complex level of trauma', and have no option but to trust another clinician with our medical care, despite everything that we've already been through."